This has become a huge thing as of late with folks and their individual thread rules. On one hand, they will mention that the gym rules apply, but in the next section, they will have a rule that states "Any negative references will send first." This does not follow the policy of Pokegym. The person with LESSER refs will send first unless the person with the higher references agrees otherwise. We get anywhere from 5-10 reports a day on topics that all have this rule, and it's taking away from the ability of the staff to respond to topics that actually need handled. If this is part of your rules, please delete this from your topic. Thanks for keeping the Gym a great place!