calisupra2nr: It's Pokémon, yes? And Pokémon is a game with prizes, so some of the players will become very competitive. You wrote "How concerned are you with your life when your biggest worries are about people copying you in a card game.
Nerds ruin anything that COULD be fun in this world, by taking it to some undeserving extreme", and I'm trying to tell you that "nerds" (which you obviously used in a degrading way) will exist for any kind of hobby and interest, ESPECIALLY those that reward "nerd-level" interest with prizes.
I completely agree with you that if you took away everyone who's not "elite" (playing very competitively) from the game, you would be left with almost no one. They're a very small minority! But the point from my post was that nobody should be "taken away" at all, and we should all try to respect each other and understand the other person's viewpoint. It's all about respecting someone's opinion even though we don't agree with it, by putting ourselves in their shoes and understanding how they think.
Example A:
-Casual player posts his Tentacruel decklist on the deck forum
-Elite player says said Tentacruel player should give up the whole deck because Tentacruel is bad
-Casual player strongly emphasizes that he LOVES Tentacruel, that it's his favorite Pokémon, and that being able to play with Tentacruel is a bigger priority than winning 50%+ of his matches
By this point, if the elite player continues to try and force the casual player to think like himself, he has failed trying to respect the other side's opinion. By this point, he should give up trying to make the other player focus on winning as much as possible, and just try to give whatever respectful Tentacruel advice he can.
EXAMPLE B:
- Elite player arrives at tournament with a deck he and his friends have been working on for four months, finetuning it while testing it against every other deck there is. Elite player plays six Swiss rounds. Some of them are against casual players with Tentacruel or Quagsire decks, but they go by in a blur. However, in the last two rounds, he plays intense and intellectually challenging matches against two of the state's best players, who are unleashing their secret decks that they have been working on for months. Both matches go to time, in an intense and dramatic battle that leaves the players exhausted, and makes them incredibly happy for those 4-5 special cards they put in their deck that made all the difference.
- After the tournament, casual player tells elite player that he hates him because elite player is not playing for fun, and played a "boring" deck that as many as six other players in the top 16 played.
- Elite player says he is playing for fun, and thoroughly enjoyed the day's event
- Casual player thinks that because building a strong deck and playing difficult battles means to an end (a trophy, a trip to Worlds), consequently the deckbuilding and battling can't have been ends in themselves. This is an arrogant thing to assume, as I'm sure all elite players enjoy their deckbuilding, playtesting and battling a lot - even if they don't take first place. The progress in itself is fun. Actually, I'm sure every step in the process is fun for the elite player - if it wasn't fun, he wouldn't bother to play Pokémon!
The bottom line is: the problem from both camps here is that they don't try to think relatively, and don't try to put themselves in the other person's shoes. Pokémon is like everything else in life: Just because you like doing something a certain way and get the most happiness that way, doesn't mean you should enforce your way upon others.