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4 year old's road to Pokemon Master :)

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Nanashi

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I sure hope I am in the right forum to share this, if not hopefully it can be moved to the right forum. So here is a story I am very proud of that may help all of you that have kids that want to get into the game, but you are not sure if they will understand it enough.
I am a league leader, I have had my own league for 3+ years now, my son plays and he is the one that got me into it. In the last year now, my daughter 3 at the time, now 4 years old started coming with us, so that my wife could have a relaxing night. My daughter was really interested in the cards, so I gave her some older cards we would never used. She watched us and just by watching us learned a lot of the basic moves, you draw, you attach energy, you shuffle, you offer to cut etc. My daughter wanted to learn how to play. But it was a league championship tournament, that made me decide that maybe she can learn!
I started going to 2 leagues a week, since my daughter was into and wanted to go to another league. The league owner of the 2nd league we go to, asked if she would like to play in a league championship, since he has no juniors to play. I warned him, that she knows the basics, but I will have to tell her what the cards do, since I have never really worked with her on what the cards do. She played a Groudon-Excradrill deck. 3-0 in the league championships. She just needed me to tell her what the attack was and what the trainer didn't. She got an invite to an annual BBQ we do every year to represent his league in the juniors. So, now it came down to, how do I teach her to play, without my help.
I went through a lot of mistakes with this. sometimes, I think we forget that the juniors, especially the new juniors, need to have it more simple then the masters. I made decks that had abilities, tried to teach her the abilities, no that didn't work, she would forget what to do. I then gave her a deck that had a stage 1 (evolution) she had a hard time remembering that the "bigger one, went on the little one". I looked at all the cards, wasn't quite sure what to work with, then it hit me. She needs a simple deck, that you can attach energy, attack and not worry about all the extra stuff. I found my match made in heaven for her, she loved Groudon EX, knows the attacks, but I couldn't figure out what to pair it with. Then I remembered, Terrakion is simple, just attach and attack. So I found my Pokemon line for her. Groudon EX and Terrakion. Then came the trainers.
This part was much easier then figuring out the Pokemon. She watched me enough times to know what catcher was, so I gave her 4 catcher in the deck. Cheren just draw 3 cards, Juniper, you discard all your hand and draw 7. She had been doing well counting to 10, so I knew she could count to 7. I am so thankful for Heavy Ball with this combination, instead of having to explain to her, that Heavy ball gets a Pokemon that has 3 retreat, I taught her that Heavy ball just gets any Pokemon she has in her deck. Simple as that! Switch gets you the Pokemon you want to use. Plus Power helps you attack, she easily caught onto that. I had 4 more cards to work with, unsure what to put in there, I tried EXP Share. Now I was worried about this, but I didn't tell her all the wording, I just said, "this goes on a benched Pokemon, when they knock out the Pokemon on top, 1 of their energy goes to whoever this card is attached to" She surprisingly had watched me use it enough she knew exactly what it did. So now we have a simple trainer line to work with.
She played in the league Championship, she won 1 match, and lost the rest, but she showed she could do the basics.
She has decided to try Battleroads, She has now played 2 tournaments and has placed 2nd in both tournaments. The most recent she went undefeated up until the last match and due to pre-engagement, we had to leave before the last match, we decided to just let her take the loss, so she would place.
So I hope this article helps you remember, that if you are worried about your child playing, and scared they won't remember all abilities, the harder attacks that have extra effect, or worried about evolving their Pokemon, you just need to take a moment and realize, they are just wanting to have fun! Just make a simple deck they can play and maybe they will even surprise you when they are doing so well, because they don't have to remember a conjillion different things to do on their turn. Draw, Attach, Attack, simple trainers.
For any ideas, for you small one here is how I made my daughters list.

Pokemon
4 - Groudon EX
4 - Terrakion

Trainers
4 - Cheren
4 - Juniper
4 - Switch
4 - Catcher
4 - Plus Power
4 - EXP share
4 - Potion
4 - Heavy Ball

Energy
20 - :fighting:

Victories she has had against other decks:
A Couple Zek Eels / Ray Eels decks
Klinklang EX
Giratina EX deck
Darkrai/Zoroark rush deck
 
What fun. We've given similar advice to lots of young players' parents as well. Stick with the rule of 4 and Keep it Simple!

When our daughter started, there weren't so many good basics, so we did an Empoleon deck. The key for her was using all the same Piplup and Prinpulp. She couldn't read the attack, but could remember what the "top one" and the "bottom one" did.

Keep it up, and keep challenging her! It'll only get "funner"!:lol:
 
Nice job, both of you!

My son, who is now 5, started playing a few months after his big sister started at the end of last year (he was 4 1/2). He saw how much fun she was having and all the cool cards she got when she went to League, and decided he wanted in on that. I told him I'd be happy to play with him at home (which is true), but I wasn't going to take him to League until he could do basic damage calculations and read (or remember) the attacks on his cards. It was a dodge, frankly -- I didn't want to have to watch both kids at League :)

Well, it took him about two weeks to go from barely starting to read to being able to read (haltingly, but successfully) all of the attacks, including name and effect text, on every card in the decks the three of us were using. At the same time, he started handling addition and subtraction by tens (counting on his fingers at first, of course) and basically forced me to hold up my side of the bargain and take him to League. Since then he's only continued to improve; he's reading all the cards without problem now (and books, too, which he wasn't doing before) and has no problem with basic addition and subtraction.

Yesterday, he participated in his first Battle Roads, and (with Garchomp/Altaria) went 2-1 and placed fourth.

This game has been absolutely amazing at motivating him to learn. If I get nothing else out of it, I'm pretty sure it's been worth it just for that.
 
the fact that playing the game is absolutely 'painless' reading and math drill has been a 'selling' point i've used with parents at my league for years :)

league is also good 'currency': if you want to go to league this week, you'll have to (finish your homework/chores/reading log, whatever fits) first...
 
I agree - it can be tricky to get kids to "like" to read, but Pokemon is a great way.

We had a mom in our league talk to us about her son and Pokemon. Her son (about 9, I think) is dyslexic, and she said that reading Pokemon cards - particularly the names - was a wonderful challenge for him. He had to go slowly (because the names are not commonly used words) and he was much more careful at decoding the text. Plus, I've been so impressed with all of our league players (from parents as well as kids) in their willingness to play patiently with him and give him time to read the cards on his own.

I know we've all seen several negative posts about Spirit of the Game and "games-manship" lately, but this is why I love Pokemon. Seeing little ones (and even not-so-little ones) enjoy getting together with a bunch of other players, and have fun supporting each other.
 
Thank you for sharing this, Nanashi. When we got our oldest son into playing at age 5, he had the advantage of already being able to read and add, so we could simply make him a deck and start playing.

Now his 4 year old brother wants to get into playing and he can't do either very well yet. Your post gives me a place to start with him and ease him up to where he wants to be.
 
As a 24 year old who hopes the game will continue to be alive and kicking by the time I have kids and they're old enough to start playing, I love this thread.
 
This is an awesome story. I have a kid about to hit four that always sits and watches me and my oldest son play. Its amazing what he picked up on at an early age. He's by no means ready to play, but he can count pips on a di and knows how to place damage and he wants to play so bad. When he sees me organizing and sleeving cards, he'll go get his older cards I give him and ask for sleeves. When he sees me and my son play, he gets a handful of old stuff and acts like he's playing by drawing cards, rolling dice, and placing damage. He's getting close, though not near ready enough, but I can't wait until he is. Its good to know that he'll probably pick it up easier than I thought...
 
I'm with Pablo, this thread is a treat.... I think it's amazing that your children, ages 4 & 5 can handle the mechanics, let alone the math. That's awesome... With them that young, definitly starting with EASY trainers, with EASY pokemon (not much reading/little to no powers/abilities) is the way to go. I found my daughters old Seaking/Bidoof deck the other day and laughed. A good piece of advice I was given by my TO was to play the kids with a MIRROR deck. Show them what you are doing, they'll "GET YOU BACK" with the same moves and ideas. They may not totally understand the right moves to make right off, but seeing and hearing you tell them "why" you did it will help them get creative with their plays.

I'll let the gurus in here tell you the correct ways to handle the littlest ones. But from personal experience, I can tell you what NOT TO DO... I tried a little too hard and ended up with a couple kids that went from Pokemon was all they wanted to do, to running for the door everytime I goto the cabinet to get the cards. Maybe not that bad, but they don't want to play like we used to.

1)MODERATION. Don't force them to play that 5th game if they don't want to. When they start looking around or giving you the "I don't care" look, it's time to put the cards up.

2)CHARLIE SHEEN DISEASE --- Every kid has it, and you gotta make sure you "throw" enough games to them to keep them smiling, standing up on the table, and screaming "WINNING!!!!" They don't win at that age, they're going outside to play. I understand I'll get some ribbing on this from the people that say you need to show them toughness and them losing makes them competitive, but I think I'm right with this age group.

3)EXPLAIN ABOUT LOSING --- When the lil ones get started all their opponents are older and they'll get beat regularly. Explain the Poke "Pidgys and Combees" to them.... "When you get older you'll be the one winning" speech... In any little league sport you go from the Poundee to the Pounder, it's life! The hardest part about your newbies is the older kids won't want to lose to them and try little things (yes some cheat) to turn the outcome in their favor. Your kid won't know what all of their opponents pokemon do, they just know their own... Don't climb the rail and be a crazy poke-parent.... Let Karma get em in the end.

4)HAVE FUN!!! This is Quality Time!!! Ask any Poke-Parent!!!

5)***MOST IMPORTANT --- LET THE KIDS PLAY HOW THEY WANT!!!! As they play and grow with this game, it's awesome to watch their minds take over. They start changing their decks to include things they see in other people's decks. You have to let them research, test, tweak, etc... If they want a 4th Potion in their decks, let them put it in there. You can make suggestions to them and hopefully they will listen. BUT IF YOU FORCE, which I regretfully was guilty of, they will mentally checkout from this game.
 
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YAY! What a Great Thread!!!

I have to say, this is what I love about the game.

The following is MY OPINION, and yes, my 7 year old is starting to play for the FIRST time, after "tinkering" with the cards for a few years.

When starting, keep it at league, and start wtih 20 card decks containing their FAVORITE pokemon, with some energy, and some VERY SIMPLE trainers. Cheren, (Bill and Mom's Kindness back in the day), Bianca can even be used based on counting skills.

Stick to attacks that do simple 1 small attack, with a second larger attack that have MINIMAL additional words. The good old Machop line was my favorite. 1 for 10, 2 for 30.

Stay all basics for a while and THEN add in their first evolution.

Then add in more cards 1 by 1, and soon you will be at a 30 card deck, then 40, then 50 and then...the big one. 60.

Play with them with an "equally strengthed" deck, to give them a chance at winning.

Want to have fun at league? Have the OTHER kids at league play against them with their "battle opponent" deck, to guarantee equal footing. As you improve their deck, improve the "battle opponent" deck, yes, you'll be building 2 decks.

2 prizes. For a while, stick with 2 prize games. That is about the extent of attention span for kids under 7 years old. As they get older, and more confident, increase, but much of hte game is done in the set-up and early rounds at this age.

Know the signs of "I'm done for now" for the child. Allow them to be done.

Smile, be positive. this is a great family game. Frankly, the BEST around.

See you all soon!

WAR PIGLETS!!!

Vince
 
My parents never supported me playing/collecting cards when I was much younger. They, and most other parents, saw Pokemon as a major distraction to our studies. :(

I'm really happy to see so many parents now avidly supporting their children's interest in Pokemon and letting them develop it as a hobby. I really enjoyed reading your sharing, OP. Thanks a lot!
 
I too love this thread. My 11 year old got us into the game (he was 6 at the time). We started playing competitively his second year. Pokemon helped his reading and basic math and it was fun.

My daughter wasn't quite 2 when we went to St. Louis for our first regionals. I went to great pangs to keep our cards out of her hands. I wanted her to understand that these were "special" and not to chew on and bend and wad up and throw around the house.

Well, guess who walks up and hands her a promo card. Not my PTO but my mentor and friend. Yep, Vince. Whats the first thing she does, bends it and sticks it in her mouth. Vince and Denise are just cracking up. Thanks Vince. That was the best thing anyone could have done. It made me realize that she needed to have the cards so she could be taught (as she's gotten older) how to take care of them and to appreciate them. She's 5 now and hounds me to make her a new deck everytime we make one for her brother. She wants to play more than my son.

We started her out with 2 stage 1 lines. Raichu (Pikachu being her favorite) and Galvantula. Both were straight forward with no real effects to go with them. They both had "the first attack and second attack", that's how she announced her attacks. We had 4 ofs of bill, cheerleaders cheer, and team rockets trickery. We've used stage 2 lines without the stage 2's just to keep it a little simpler for her. We've added trainers as she's advanced to get her used to different cards. Even at 4 she knew all the basics like draw a card attach an energy (evolving was a little harder to grasp at first), attack, and when to take a prize card. All in all she's not quite ready for a Premier event but come this spring, who knows. And best of all she loves telling everyone that she's never lost to Daddy. Her brother, on the other hand, is a totally different story.
 
That was really touching. It proves that even the smallest of ones can do well in tournaments and events. I hope your 4 year old daughter gets better at the game and I hope for the best in future tournaments. :thumb:
 
Nanashi... your post brings back great memories of how our family got introduced to the game. My daughter Sydney played the Diamond&Pearl DS game when she was 5. Her starter pokemon was Piplup. One day her mom and I were at Walmart and saw a pack of cards with Piplup. I assumed it was some kind of "flash card" set that had info on pokemon in the DS game. Had NO IDEA about the card game existing. Once we opened it and read the instructions we were lured to the website were we found out about leagues.

Our original league was mostly young juniors and Sydney loved going every week (still does...). Indeed we attribute her growth in reading and math to pokemon. We also are pleased that it has given her something that she can "compete" in and teach her sportsmanship and fair play. Unlike our son Sean, she is a bit less athletic oriented and this gives a great venue to learn things that sports can teach.

I'll never forget the day that our league leader pulled me aside and said that we should consider "competitive pokemon". I had no clue what he was talking about and frankly the idea sort of scared us. He told us about an upcoming "Regional Championship" (whatever that was.....) and that we could carpool with him and his son who would help Sydney get a feel for playing in a competitive event. Well, we went. She had a great time playing a Gardy-Gallade deck going 3-3 for the day. The head judge for Juniors that day, Greg Sauk, introduced himself to me and gave Sydney some constructive feedback that made her feel great and gave her a desire to play more competitive events.

That was about 5 years ago and it seems like yesterday. Since then I am completely amazed at the journey this silly card game has taken us on. The adventures I have had with my daughter one-on-one. The amazing players, staff and families that we have met. The chance to travel to places like San Diego and Hawaii with the family and enjoy the celebration and fellowship of the pokemon community. Simply amazing. Never could have imagined all this looking back to that day buying a simple theme deck in Walmart, Today we have a confident, self assured young girl that is in going into 5th grade armed with life experiences and friendships that are shaping her for the future.

It is so great to see similar journeys start and read about similar experiences from other families. And Sydney would say it is especially encouraging to have another girl join in. Good luck and enjoy every moment. It will pass with the blink of an eye. Hope to meet you and introduce our girls.
 
Like many I am quite pleased to read this thread. There are many excellent "beginner" cards in the game that, while rarely useful for advanced players (never say never) are perfect for beginning players. The more advanced training techniques like meganium45 suggest interest me quite a bit.

So I feel like I am contributing, just a reminder that not just kids can use a simplified introduction. While some people would, when I teach someone a particular game, I use the most basic version of the rules. When it is a video game with multiple characters, you generally select the "all-arounder" (if there isn't a character tailored to beginners) instead of your own best character, because it is better for teaching the game itself. When driving, a tricked out hot rod (whether a classic or state of the art) is not the smart choice. XD

Also, the League(s) in my original Pokémon playing location (Central Iowa) had an actual player named Timmy! This Timmy was a spike! His brother was a good (and later great) player so "Timmy" pulled a Gohan as he managed to "keep up" with the big kids while being so young. It was an almost perverse pleasure when someone would under estimate him only to quickly lose to "little Timmy!"

Of course now he is... um... no clue (hey, I move from that area over three years ago). He should be in Masters now, though I don't know how much he still plays.
 
Thanks for this thread, feels good to know another generation are growing into the game :D I myself will get my sister (who is currently 4) to start playing soon (probally when she is 5-6).
 
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