Exactly, it's what you've "heard" Remember the game Telephone? Goes from "Mark has an oreo cakster" to "Mark has his first chest hair." You can't believe everything you hear. Locking this before it gets out of hand.
Incredibly, people never tell their friends "Yeah, I became an incredible pain to deal with, causing problems again and again and again. I'm amazed they put up with me as long as they did".