darkartisan - I'm not too sure I understand what you mean, but regardless, the subject of letting people take back mistakes is interesting.
Of course, one may categorize players that allow their opponent to take back a mistake as relaxed and fun, and those who don't (such as myself) as anything but.
Doing so is a mistake.
In my view, it is just as easy to think about your next step
before you act, rather than after. It's just a matter of practice and habit.
I never ask to take any of my mistakes back, knowing that the best way to train myself to not make that mistake again is knowing I risked losing a game because of it. On the other hand, I think that letting someone take a mistake back in tournament is doing them a short term favor, but messing them up in the long term.
When I play with friends at league, it's all about learning, and taking back mistakes is a good way to learn. However, tournaments have a different intensity to them, and if someone can't live with their own mistakes and own up to it, it's not my place to baby them.
Again, this was not pointed at you, just relating to the issue you raised.
Playing Pokemon has so many aspects, and a highly accurate process of determining moves. I like sticking to it, whether I'm on the winning or losing end of it