Give me at least 10 tournaments within approx. the same distance from each other for each day tournaments are scheduled and you have a deal. For bigger tournaments, give me at least 100 options.
Until that happens, this isn't really a reasonable request. InB4Trolling, I'm not trying to be combative here, but what alternatives are there? Do I not get to play at all if a couple of friends are going to an event? Do we plan a "playing schedule" to prepare for the SLIGHT possibility we're going to play against each other? etc.
And even then, a MAJOR aspect of tournaments is the social aspect...IDK about the rest of the people on the 'gym, but I see winning as secondary to having a really fun time, and I consider myself a fairly competitive player. Trying to tell me that I shouldn't play in a tournament with friends because there's a chance we might play AND we're both in a position where scooping to the other is advantageous doesn't seem reasonable.
I wish to clarify something: I was
specifically addressing people who couldn't bring themselves to play and risk beating a friend/family member in a tournament setting. I agree tournaments are supposed to be
fun, but it is a
specific fun. You are agreeing that you enjoy the fun of organized play and fair competition
going into it. If you do not agree to that, why play in the tournament?
So no, one doesn't need your requirements you listed, but rather I ask you (and all players) not to abuse the system and to meet the basic requirements of the concept of a tournament. You are to not intentionally play poorly or otherwise aid another, but instead play to the best of your ability. If it is your friend or family member, both of you should understand going into it that you are to play your best against each other should you face each other. As such, I consider this quite a reasonable request.
Obviously a direct comparisons to team sport that is meant to be a team sport won't match up completely. Still the underlying process is similar: how would you feel finding out that a team only advanced because... one of their players was friends with a player on the opposing team earlier in a tournament or series, and the friend of that player either intentionally performed poorly to allow his friend's team to win, or after being a vital part of his team suddenly refused to play at the last possible second, ruining any strategy going into the match?
How would you like taking bids for a construction project and finding out all the local contractors were friends and wanted to help out one particular guy... so they all way overbid so the friend would get it. Sounds noble until you're the guy actually footing the bill. You need this work done but because of the other contractors basically "scooping", you now have to overpay to get the work done!
I should mention any tournament intentionally designed to be "casual" is indeed excluded. I haven't made a Pre-Release for over two years
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but for the longest time the idea was making it a "casual tournament", as contradictory as that might sound. It was specific organized play, but there weren't huge prizes on the line (does it affect player rankings?) and the idea was making it a fun way to get new cards, promote the set, and attract new players. Pre-releases are the kind of tournament where SotG at least implies you should help your opponent out (if not overtly, at least reminding them to read their cards and such). As such, a Pre-release tournament's goal isn't quite the same, and thus forfeiting solely to allow a friend or family member to advance isn't as big a deal. Well if those are still the conditions.
tl;dr: You do not see it as reasonable that I ask you to
actually play the game in a tournament you wish to attend? No, sorry. That is unreasonable, but the current rules provide you that opportunity for various reasons. I can't command you to, but if you
will not play a family member or friend in an honest game, please don't attend a tournament. If you
will play, I have no problem with it.