Spheal says
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Just trying to ensure that every one can be happy to some extent over this historically controversial topic, Poke'Mom...
My opinion on this is that any one should be able to marry any one once they're 21. I believe that you have way too much growing to do when you're 18 to marry a person. + I think this would be good for the American economy, provided that we charged an additional fee for a same sex marriage license. Being 95% equal is good enough, right?
My opinion on this is that any one should be able to marry any one once they're 21. I believe that you have way too much growing to do when you're 18 to marry a person. + I think this would be good for the American economy, provided that we charged an additional fee for a same sex marriage license. Being 95% equal is good enough, right?
i agree that the word itself isn't a problem. the reason the three-letter word for 'homosexual' is filtered here is because 99% of the time it was used prior to filtering was in a derogatory ('zomg that's so.....!111!') context...
'mom
yoshi: so if one is homosexual, they cannot have religious/spiritual beliefs?
not ALL churches/religions condemn homosexuality. some do, certainly...but many don't. at least one couple married in my temple when it was legal here in CA...
'mom
please speak for your own church, instead of tarring every spiritual belief with the same bigotry brush.
and please don't dare make assumptions about anyone else's spiritual beliefs just being a 'habit' they've fallen into: you're equating all organized religion with whatever narrow-minded 'church' you've had personal experience with.
not all 'religion' is judeo-christian, and not all have that world view...not to mention that here in the US there are churches specificially serving the GBLT communities.
and before the thread goes even more off-topic: no more stories about any particular 'interesting' ways anyone ingests any particular foodstuff; the post in question has been edited.
jmho
'mom
Mhm you're right, I'm sorry, but you know which kind of church I was refering too.
And of course its not a habit for anyone but I have withnessed this quite often.
And what is a GBLT?
*tries to be less offensive and generalising*
I figure that homosexual people would be so happy about having their marriage legalized that a fee would be too insignificant to weigh them down on their wedding day, and that bigots wouldn't be able to argue with it much because they would be getting something out of it. Sound fair? Or am I not one sided enough for you guys?.
hmm... i think this is the other way around.
Thanks for the attack on me, Politoed666. Don't let me forget to thank you either, Yoshi-.
Mayyyyybe you guys failed to notice my reasoning for that comment? You know... the part where I said that all I was trying to do was create a solution that could potentially make every one happy to some extent?
I figure that homosexual people would be so happy about having their marriage legalized that a fee would be too insignificant to weigh them down on their wedding day, and that bigots wouldn't be able to argue with it much because they would be getting something out of it. Sound fair? Or am I not one sided enough for you guys?
As for saying "95% is good enough, right?", it just goes back to assuming that homosexuals would be so appreciative of their bond finally being recognized legally that a fee would be the least of their worries.
If I'm not one sided enough for you guys... Sorry to offend your little hearts. I can see San Fransisco from my house, I voted for *** marriage, and am very well acquainted with this issue. Regardless of it's popularity on this forum, from my experience, I'd have to say that my suggestion would most likely work at solving this problem with the fewest number of protests... from either side.
back on topic please.
so you're saying that since a subset of the homosexual community are promiscuous, NONE should be able to legalize their commitment to each other? really?
yes as if they stray they can't get caught by accidently getting a seperate partner in a family way so to say or have lipstick on their collar unless they like to dress up
interesting POV, as as i stated up thread every single 'problem' with marriage...divorces, serial marriages, 'step' families etc. can be laid squarely at the feet of heterosexual marrieds.
as far as serial marriages I learnt my lesson if she should god forbid pass or divorce my arse I'm finished
so why would we willingly create a seperate sub problem with american families as a majority of them seem to want to talk dim bulb ladies into having babies for em, there's another choice discussion (shaken or stirred???) and who gets the cherry on top Mr. Bondage
so does that mean heterosexuals should not be allowed to marry either, since they're the ones with the 50% (depending upon whose set of statistics one refers to) divorce rate?
not feasible as the race would pass into oblivion without hetero's
monogamy is not in the instincts of the species (can anyone say Darwin?), thats why religions have tried to make us a species above the others in the animal kingdom, as for myself I don't think it a sin when I look at an attractive female, it's one of the temptations that god has put before us and u can either act upon your instincts or be a human being (why do u think ya'll call men dogs??), and I just rationalize that just cause I'm on a diet does not mean I can't look at the donuts, just don't taste it's just a matter of the individual, and our values otherwise could u imagine our large tournements, it would be like a kennel club and nothing would be accomplished except more future pokemon players and would make for some interesting top cuts (and yes I did just mention evolutionism and creationism in the same paragraph, being a man of science and being brought up in a catholic home I get the best of both worlds) so nyahh:tongue:
you bring up good points mom, u seem like an intelligent and compassionate individual and these days u are few and far between
back on topic please.
so does that mean heterosexuals should not be allowed to marry either, since they're the ones with the 50% (depending upon whose set of statistics one refers to) divorce rate?
not feasible as the race would pass into oblivion without hetero's
monogamy is not in the instincts of the species (can anyone say Darwin?), thats why religions have tried to make us a species above the others in the animal kingdom, as for myself I don't think it a sin when I look at an attractive female, it's one of the temptations that god has put before us and u can either act upon your instincts or be a human being (why do u think ya'll call men dogs??), and I just rationalize that just cause I'm on a diet does not mean I can't look at the donuts, just don't taste it's just a matter of the individual, and our values otherwise could u imagine our large tournements, it would be like a kennel club and nothing would be accomplished except more future pokemon players and would make for some interesting top cuts (and yes I did just mention evolutionism and creationism in the same paragraph, being a man of science and being brought up in a catholic home I get the best of both worlds) so nyahh:tongue:
you bring up good points mom, u seem like an intelligent and compassionate individual and these days u are few and far between