Something that I just don't understand because of the way I think and how I handle problems:
It seems like the overwhelming response to any proposed problem is "you're just not being positive enough" or "Why don't you come up with solutions instead of problems." And yes, I can admit that it's valid to come up to solutions to problems. But why do we have to hate the people who propose problems? Maybe they're proposing problems, not because they think it's a bad idea, but because they see a problem and don't have a solution to it. Instead of staying silent, they introduce new problems for the community to brainstorm and fix. Once all the problems have been fixed then the idea becomes that much more feasible.
Instead of attacking people who seem to "buddy up to TPCI" every time a new idea is introduced, why can't we look at their responses, formulated by years of experience working alongside of TPCI, and try to meet concerns instead of ignoring or belittling them?
No concerns have been ignored, so for that you're just wrong.
Every "problem" or "concern" was met with answers or solutions.
I think people are more desirous of finding problems with a good idea, than trying to find ways to implement it. I know that's just an opinion, but that is the opinion of MANY, MANY people. I'm not alone in thinking this way- I'm probably just one of the more vocal ones to express this sentiment. You can express problems or concerns, but to be dismissive or purely contrarian is not good. This thread is just one example in a series of examples where individuals CONSISTENTLY do this. We're not stupid- we see the same posters post consistently against any good idea, NEVER offering anything constructive, and never offering solutions. They don't offer them in a way to ever cushion the blow, or in a way to actually say an idea is good. It's just no- this won't work, or that is a bad idea. Never good idea, hard to do. Never a positive remark, but always pure negativity. I am not alone. I'd say you are in the minority, actually, for thinking the way you do. MysterThing is probably the closest one of the people who offered criticism to do it well and in a constructive manner. You all could take a lesson from his few posts in here. "great idea from a logistical standpoint, not so much from a legal standpoint"- while this is actually pretty debateable (hence the back and forth between mystery and psychup), it is a criticism offered in a constructive manner, while ACKNOWLEDGING a good a idea and offering up problems (and even a solution or two, and hey, even AGREEMENT!).
I find it funny that you say "maybe they just didn't have a solution?" I find it curious that people who are creative enough, and analytical enough, and knowledgeable enough to see nuanced problems with an idea are incapable of seeing nuanced solutions, too. Maybe this one time they didn't have a solution, but this is a CONSISTENT thing.
http://pokegym.net/forums/showthread.php?t=170370
Check out that thread for tons of examples. Time and time again I offer solutions, each shot down with no attempt to compromise or offer their own solutions.
I say we could give 8 packs at the beginning (no no no, people would scam [even though it was established that the value of packs made it cost virtually the same, if not MORE than buying a box (per pack)]). I said you could do 7 up front, and 1 later. NO. I said you could do 8 up front, keep the promo and the deckbox. NO. Maybe we can do a different format for some people- NO. Maybe we can do a whole SLEW of things to make the prereleases better- NO NO NO.
This is the exact same thing happening. It happens every time a player offers a good idea up. Some people come in, every single time, and shoot it down with everything they can think of, every solution, never ever ever offering a solution of their own. And when a good idea IS found, they are silent and don't acknowledge it.
OMG yes espeon200! Thank you. I actually am pulled over in a parking lot right now to write a response to ryan's latest post, because it's bothering me that much.
I'll grant that my first reply had a fair amount of negativity, but I make the effort to share my thoughts because it helps fuel the discussion of potential issues. Otherwise, what do we have? "Great idea ryan! Someone do it!" "Way to go!" "Yeah this would be awesome for the game!" That doesn't get us anywhere.
Furthermore, Ryan, when you ended your original post with this:
Just like many people who post their latest big idea, you only see the positives. This thread has a lot of constructive feedback from people who care about the idea too, and as is apparent now, other people have either done it already or are planning on doing it too. This "us vs. them" sentiment is BS. If there is a perceived "versus" here, I promise you it's only coming from the player side. It's inconceivable that the PTOs and moderators and other people (like me) hold the players in contempt so as to think everything is a battle. SD_Pokemom seems to be a lightning rod for this kind of vitriol, and now I have I taste of it with your reply to me.
Everyone's going to have an opinion. If you don't want to open yourself up to feedback, don't post. Maybe you aren't taking it as constructive, but if someone with experience or knowledge says "it will never work because of ...", maybe it's true! But for Pete's sake, let's not get into harping on HOW people are saying it and holding that against them.
BS, but countless players feel this way. I'm sorry you're ignorant of how hundreds of players feel about posting on the 'gym, but that's the way it is. that's why I called you out.
You're super hypocrticial. On facebook, you were ALL FOR the idea.
As soon as you're on the gym, you turn the other face. THAT is .
you said:
I've actually thought a lot about this, and how it could work easily. I'd even build it for them.
you said:
Problem is, any mechanism to communicate pairings is not worth it.
That is why I gave you a rude response. On one side, where the discussion is dominated by players (Heyfonte on facebook), you clearly play up to one side- oh, this is a great idea, it would be easy to implement, etc.
As soon as you're on pokegym, it becomes "it isn't worth it". You blatantly contradict yourself, and that kind of contradiction and lack of help is what people HATE about this website and all the "discussion" that takes place here.
Seriously, I have no problem with criticism. I wish you would act CONSISTENTLY, at least. You speak completely differently on heyfonte than you do here. One is constructive, the other is DISMISSIVE.
That is the key difference. Espeon, that is what you fail to grasp. It isn't that some people try to offer CONSTRUCTIVE criticism. They merely offer criticism, or are dismissive. There is a huge difference between the two.
adapted from heyfonte by a VERY notable player said:
Let's roleplay a Pokegym thread about it.
OP: City Championships start in ten days. Why aren't schedules up?
Pokegym Random: Yeah, why aren't they up?
Random judge: TPCi works very hard. You are out of line to make such absurd demands.
Rokman: SCREW EVERYONE!!
This is how a huge number of people feel about pokegym. Take it however you want, but many of you are seen as pure contrarians, who offer nothing but criticisms and problems, with nothing constructive to offer. And this DOES breed a feeling of "us vs them". If it's only coming from the "player side", then maybe you should think about how you all present yourselves, because to a LOT of people, this is how the situation seems.