Tim17
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You really have to watch out for people with more than one neg ref. Always make them send first or don't trade with them.
well if they happen to have more iTrader than you, then you can't really make them send first as that's against the rules (or did this change without me knowing?). You could ask them to, or simply back out (which is what I'd personally do).
general rule of thumb here - if they've more than 1 neg in their records - do some research ask both the person you're trying to trade with and the person who left the neg what happened.
if they've more than 1 neg within the month - I'd suggest not trading with them period.