SuperWooper
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Thanks so much, you guys!
I've heard a lot of you people say a lot of your best friends are people you've met at tournaments. Well, that's one thing I don't have. Some of the people I've met are really, really cool, but I don't see them that often, because I don't go to every tournament they go to. If a friend invites me to see a movie or something on Saturday, or there's a school dance, and there's a Pokemon tournament on the same day, I'm not going to go to the Pokemon tournament, unless it's a huge event.
I think this natural hunger for sociality is what's making me question myself. I love being around people, especially the friends I've had for 6+ years now (4th-10th grade). One of my favorite things to do is just sit around and talk about whatever comes to mind. A lot of the people at Pokemon tournaments just talk about Pokemon. I'll definitely be interested, and I won't be putting on a mask and listening falsely to what they have to say, I really enjoy being there, but after I get home I take a break, and everything Pokemon gets lost on me...
MegaComma, you say the kids think people who play Pokemon are stupid or lame? Some of my friends at my school actually know I play Pokemon, but they're still my friends, and some of the best I've ever had. I don't know how hard you're looking to find friends at your school, but I know you're not trying very hard. There has to be some group that'll accept you for who you are. It sounds really cliched, but it's seriously the truth.
Physics Squirrel is probably the best friend I've made so far at tournaments, althought lots of others are cool, like CFK, Hot Mustid, Plaidlesspez, etc. He's a really easy guy to talk to, and he's got two younger siblings in my division (but soon I'll be in Squirrel's...then I'm screwed ;x), so we're pretty competitive. I walk up to him and say "I beat your little brother" and he'll be like, "Well my sister will beat you!" And he actually branches out in conversation. We talk about school, music, life, etc. *cuts to scene of Physics Squirrel and SuperWooper meditating in dark room with inscence candles for light and humming, "ooohhhmmmmm"* ;P
He's really cool, but definitely not as close to me as my IRL friends. And by IRL friends, I mean "friends that when I'm hanging out with, I have a social life" lol. Not just because of that, though, it's because I see 'em 5-6 days a week. Maybe even seven sometimes.
Orange Soda, I noticed your quote, which read something like this:
I've got the reasons. It's just because I want to focus my future on my career (read: job), my relationships (which will always end up in break ups until I find a woman desperate enough to marry me, of allll people), and my best friends. First, I need to find some friends. ;x
Really, though, I guess it's because I'm so concerned about sociality and my future that my interest in Pokemon is waning. So it's not really that arbitrary, but I know I'm going to think I made the wrong decision, whatever I do. It's my nature to second guess myself. I do it when I submit my decklist at a tournament, I do it when in life in general. But I've got to make a choice, because if I stay torn between two, I'm going to go nowhere, and just end up doing what I wanted to stop in the first place...
~Wooper the Wise ;P
Thanks so much, you guys!
I've heard a lot of you people say a lot of your best friends are people you've met at tournaments. Well, that's one thing I don't have. Some of the people I've met are really, really cool, but I don't see them that often, because I don't go to every tournament they go to. If a friend invites me to see a movie or something on Saturday, or there's a school dance, and there's a Pokemon tournament on the same day, I'm not going to go to the Pokemon tournament, unless it's a huge event.
I think this natural hunger for sociality is what's making me question myself. I love being around people, especially the friends I've had for 6+ years now (4th-10th grade). One of my favorite things to do is just sit around and talk about whatever comes to mind. A lot of the people at Pokemon tournaments just talk about Pokemon. I'll definitely be interested, and I won't be putting on a mask and listening falsely to what they have to say, I really enjoy being there, but after I get home I take a break, and everything Pokemon gets lost on me...
MegaComma, you say the kids think people who play Pokemon are stupid or lame? Some of my friends at my school actually know I play Pokemon, but they're still my friends, and some of the best I've ever had. I don't know how hard you're looking to find friends at your school, but I know you're not trying very hard. There has to be some group that'll accept you for who you are. It sounds really cliched, but it's seriously the truth.
Physics Squirrel is probably the best friend I've made so far at tournaments, althought lots of others are cool, like CFK, Hot Mustid, Plaidlesspez, etc. He's a really easy guy to talk to, and he's got two younger siblings in my division (but soon I'll be in Squirrel's...then I'm screwed ;x), so we're pretty competitive. I walk up to him and say "I beat your little brother" and he'll be like, "Well my sister will beat you!" And he actually branches out in conversation. We talk about school, music, life, etc. *cuts to scene of Physics Squirrel and SuperWooper meditating in dark room with inscence candles for light and humming, "ooohhhmmmmm"* ;P
He's really cool, but definitely not as close to me as my IRL friends. And by IRL friends, I mean "friends that when I'm hanging out with, I have a social life" lol. Not just because of that, though, it's because I see 'em 5-6 days a week. Maybe even seven sometimes.
Orange Soda, I noticed your quote, which read something like this:
Pardon my 14 year old inferior brain, but doesn't arbitrary mean something like spontaneous, or without reason? Maybe I should ask Pooka...teeheeOrange Soda said:Deciding to arbitrarily stop a hobby seems a bit odd to me
I've got the reasons. It's just because I want to focus my future on my career (read: job
Really, though, I guess it's because I'm so concerned about sociality and my future that my interest in Pokemon is waning. So it's not really that arbitrary, but I know I'm going to think I made the wrong decision, whatever I do. It's my nature to second guess myself. I do it when I submit my decklist at a tournament, I do it when in life in general. But I've got to make a choice, because if I stay torn between two, I'm going to go nowhere, and just end up doing what I wanted to stop in the first place...
~Wooper the Wise ;P