I will say that that is an interesting concept and reasoning from the Head Judge.
I would have asked him, "So, basically, you have just told me that I should not ever announce any of my actions or moves because it will only hurt me. Keeping quiet and possibly confusing our opponents, but allowing myself to retake actions is the way you want everyone to play?"
His response to that would be interesting.
This is the closest I have ever seen 'Pop Judge a Judge :smile:
I am teaching my daughter the same lesson. I can only go by what the judges tell me to do, and if one tells me one thing (keep hands/fingers on cards), and another tells me something completely different (must announce move), then I will use both to my advantage.
Please, do not instruct your daughter to be quiet!
calling a judge for not putting 20 dmg on Bronzong G instead of just reminding them.
All that this will accomplish is the judge saying "OK, put 20 damage on it, have a nice game." And of course, if this is a common occurence will also lead to an annoyed judge.
Don't advise your daughter to keep quiet. When the gamestate does become confused, silence during her play leaves her at the mercy of what the judge thinks is a resonable interpretation of her actions.
Because of all this, I try and get players to speak their actions, at all times. As 'Pop said, being mute will only hurt at some events.
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One final note...If you ever get table judged by the same judge, ask if the same rule applies. If it does, then most of the "speak your action" advise could be thrown out the window.