so past refs from pre- itrader days are essentially meaningless?
No they are not. As long as the old refs are still visible those also count towards deciding who sends first.
any issues with Desmond,
we have a trade thats
My Charizard AR, 2 Luxray AR, Salamence AR, Toxicroak AR, Expert Belt
for his
3 RH Call Energy
Seem to be quite a few issues with his trading. Did he insist through pm that you send first? Never deal through pm. If you have never traded with someone always check here before you finalize any deal with them.
he's insisting I send first and I sent out yesterday, but I mentioned that we should send at the same time, because of his neutrals/negatives, since he's had 2 neutral/negatives in the last 12 months or w/e and he said that he would send when he recieved mine. I also mentioned that I have older Refs from 04-05 and 08-on before this whole Itrader system came around and he still insisted that I send first, which I mean it's fine, and I'm curious as to if those refs that I've accumulated (about 35ish from before the Itrader came out) pretty much mean nothing now?
I know I've already made a stupid mistake of sending out, but I do need the RH Calls to complete my RH deck for cities, (minus Lv. X's obviously) and I'm putting a lot of faith in Desmond not to mess the trade as well as send in a reasonable manner.
On another note- Brick11 has completely ignored me the last 2 weeks and i've sent 2 pms asking him if he's sent out or received with no response. It was kind of a small trade Metal Arceus for His Electric Arceus and it was trade to simply get refs up and i sent via post office, making sure that everything was cleared to go and this was about 4 weeks ago/ 10/28....... getting aggrivated with that one a bit.