charking said:
Because I want to start posting here again without getting flamed just because I'm not competitive, and(I thought) this was the best thread to bring it up in without cluttering everything up with another thread.
well I have never seen someone be flamed on this board for not being competititve.
I went back and looked at some of your posts earlier in this thread
charking said:
To expand further on my last post, this fandom has become so obsessed with being competitive that nothing else matters. Plus, it's so bad that everyone here looks down on people that don't play competitively... and there's really no logical excuse for that.
Again I have never seen that. Please provide a link or something. I have never seen that issue before and to be honest it seems like you are grouping all competitive players into one group. you are right there is no exuse for people to demean you for having a different attitude on the game, however in this thread all you have done is tell us why you dislike competitive players. You have not shown us any example of things said to you. You say everyone who competitivly plays does that well have I done it, has venasaur or Pablo done it? I have yet to see any indication that more then a few people have or are doing this. If they are doingthis on the board then tell PokePop or some other mod. If this is happening to you outside of the gym like at league or so then either talk to the TO/PTO/LL of that area. There are plenty of ways to help this and you could even ask for advuce on the gym. I cannot garentee that these methods would work but to simply walk off then come back and link all players into that group. You are doing the one thing you said drove you away. If people flame you for not being competitive then why flame them about them being competitive?
charking said:
FACT: The pokemon TCG is only a game. Not a sport, but a game. Games are meant to be fun over all else. It's not gonna be the end of the world if you lose, and you'll still most likely have fun. UNLESS you just play for the prizes, then the actual chore lies in going through a game you don't actually enjoy to get the thing that you do truly enjoy: The prize. And that IMO, is the wrong reason to play any game.
Yes it is in the most sense only a game but it is a fun game that people want to win. You say that pokemon is not a sport it is a game therfore is made to be fun, well what about poker it is just a game but there are seious players out there. And what about Football, baseball, basketball, and stuff. Are you saying that since they are sports they are supposed to be all seious and no fun? A game and sport are essentialy the same thing.
The thing about people playing a game they don't enjoy for prizes alone, well I have never seen someone use up time effort and money to play a game they despise just to win a prize. Yes you are right in that the it is not the end of the world if you lose. The people who feel that way are bad sports as mentioned in my earlier post. Those people appear everywhere and the best thing to do is don't let it get to you. The prize being the only reason to play as I just said if you don't enjoy the game don't play. If someone plays mainly for the prize then okay you can't force change on people. There is a way to be competitive and play for the prize without being a jerk.
charking said:
Is the game THAT boring... to ignore anything about the game except the object of it? Don't any of you enjoy even the strategical nature of the game, or think that's too much of an obstacle to win as well? At least have the decency to recognize why other people play and not see them as worthless second-rate players if they're not as cutthroat as you are.
Whoever says that it "isn't just a game" should really get a life... IMO.
First thing is the whole whoever says that it's just a game should not be playing is just a fun joke and pokemon player saying. Mainly because non players often say what's the big deal it's just a game. What you said about enjoying the strategic part of the game, well that's the main reason the saying came into play people who say it's just a game have never played it and seen how stategic it can get.
People who aren't as "cutthroat" as others are not looked down on infact "second rate players" can easialy get hwlp if they want to try and compete in major tournaments. As said before there are mean people in the world that we have to deal with. There are 2 or 3 people at my league that don't competitively play but we still talk and hang out with them and help then build decks. Very few people if any are so competitve that they feel uncompetitive people are worthless.
charking said:
WRONG. There's nothing wrong with casual playing, especially with those of us who don't need a scholorship.
Casual players aren't in any of these wolves' way for their big slab of scholorship steak. Just shut up and accept that there's another type of player than you.
no ever said that casual play was wrong, The majority of pokemon players are in high school or college. No offense to 11-14 and 10- but 15+ is the biggest age group. These people which include myself have a practical need and can easily use the money. They can play a game they love and maybe get to earn some extra college money in the prosses.
As you said in the ^ quote "Shut up and accept the fact that there are other players then you?" Well that attitude does not help your situation. We all know that some people don't play for prizes and no one in this thread is dissing you but to earn respect you have to give it. The golden rule
charking said:
Poker don't have cute li'l monsters on the cards, and don't actually make an attempt to simulate combat between said cute creatures. That's the difference... it gives more reasons to like the game for more than a competitive hobby.
why does the picture on the cards make any differenc in how you play the game. Have you seen the dark cynical creatures od yu-gi-oh or magic are you saying that it makes a difference? And because of the creatures are pretenting to battle instead of hearts, spades, dimonds, and clubs being played the game should be a hobby. To most of, it is a hobby. I shoot skeet ( a type od shotgun sport) it is a hobby to me and my dad but we still compete in competititions.
charking said:
And the system isn't the problem. It's the greedy players that merely see the cards as tools to use in their ultimate goal. And as much as they'd like to think so, THEY DON'T NEED TO THINK THAT WAY.
well aren't poker cards just tools to get lots of money. You can't force change on people
charking said:
But still, nothing wrong with comming to a game for the prizes, but it IS wrong to insult and try to degrade people that didn't start the game for the prizes.
that is wrong people should not degrade or tease you fot not playing for prizes. As I said before there are several methodes to deal with these bullies online or not, but don't grop all players into that group
charking said:
That's a lie, I never intentionally try to put anyone down that don't put me down first. I'm just very vengeful and I'm not gonna stop till the discrimination stops. I want everyone to get along and play the game their own way.
Is that so wrong?
well yelling and getting mad at people won't help at all
charking said:
I don't play competitively. But that's THE REASON competitive people ruin it for me. They don't respect me BECAUSE I don't play competitive.
Again with this issue deal with it responsibly. For online, tell pokepop or some other mod. For outside the gym talk to adults/LL/PTO/TOs for advice or help to deal with it. If thsi is happening at legue tall your LL and he/she can do something about it.
charking said:
So if someone harasses me, I should leave? No, it don't work like that. Pokepop said many times that this board is for all players, competitive or not. I should be treated equal. And I have many competitive friends... I'm not gonna totally avoid what they like.
In fact, you're being as much of a jerk as they are telling me to perminantly leave.
If someone harrasses you tell someone don't lose your temper. This board is for all players. Look at ting112 and some other members who have told everyone that they do not play competitivly or even at all and no one ever demaens them. No don't avoid your friend unless they harass you too then they really aren't freinds.
No one told you to leave. Several people told you that if you leave then no one would harrass you, but no one acually ordered you to leave.anymore,
charking said:
I've seen people too many times say "If you can't take the game seriously then quit" or "People who think this is only a game shouldn't be playing at all". I'd say that has plenty to do with overly-competitive(or just simply rude) people.
As I said before the whole "People who think this is only a game shouldn't be playing at all". is not like a rule or something you are taking it to seriously. It simply says that some players are passionte for the game and some members even have it in there sig. I highly doubt it is there just because of you.
charking said:
And you never seen it probably because I haven't posted much since a few months ago, just because of it. And the whole ganging up on me thing to... which you guys seem to be doing now. Cut it out.
Well some people may be ganging up on you because you did judt start posting and the first "I'm back posts" where flaming and rude. If you walk into a room and say "hello, now shut up" you won't get a warm welcome.
charking said:
YOU'RE MISSING THE POINT.
I'm "bashing" them because they're rude and they can't accept other types of players. Get it?
And I never meant to "bash" all competitive players.
no one on this thread has done that at all you are grouping everone into to one catagorey
Well that's my take on the situation of this thread